Posted by sleepygirl on June 4, 2005, at 23:35:46
In reply to Re: Books as comfort » littleone, posted by Tamar on June 4, 2005, at 20:16:06
Can you persuade your T to write something down for you that you could read when the going gets tough? Would that help?
I like that idea because:
My T gave me an envelope on which he wrote "open in case of emergency"-you see everytime I felt angry at him I'd feel really insecure. I'd feel like I really had to make contact because I was scared, but I didn't really know why. Inside he wrote a note telling me he wouldn't leave me even if I was angry at him. I know it might seem peculiar, but I love the real concrete reminder. The BEST part was that he understood my need to be reassured. That meant a lot.
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