Posted by Tamar on May 31, 2005, at 18:45:14
In reply to Re: don't know what to make of this., posted by partlycloudy on May 31, 2005, at 17:00:39
> I can't figure out why I have delayed reactions like this - maybe it's because I'm back home and feel safe to express myself. I saw my therapist last Thursday and it's only now that I am allowing myself to truly feel upset. And because it's not "real time" I feel frustrated on top of hurt.
I get delayed reactions too. In my case it's usually because at the time I could react I'm usually trying not to in order to save face (by not crying, losing my temper, etc.) It is so frustrating to feel everything afterwards.
I'm so sorry to hear about what your T is doing. If you have a chance to tell her how angry you are, I think you should go for it. You probably need the release and she ought to be able to hear it. Oh, and I agree with the suggestion to ask her for a referral to someone with staying power.
Thinking of you...
Tamar
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