Posted by Tamar on May 23, 2005, at 4:21:01
In reply to Re: Wondering if my Ex T understood me » JenStar, posted by pinkeye on May 22, 2005, at 20:17:58
I’m glad that you feel relieved about writing an email to your ex T. I’m sure he’ll be pleased to hear from you. And if he doesn’t reply it’s probably because he’s keeping the boundaries.
I was thinking about what you said about the way you were behaving when you started therapy with him, and I have to admit I was pretty unpleasant to be around when I was very depressed, too. I was always shouting and throwing things and generally being horrible to my husband and kids. But I think it was because of the depression; I wasn’t being horrible for no reason. I don’t think you should be too hard on yourself about how you were behaving when you were so depressed.
Someone (I think it was JenStar) made a comment that I thought was really important. Will you be able to find a sympathetic therapist if you do decide to return to India?
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