Posted by Dinah on May 3, 2005, at 17:20:45
In reply to Re: Well, the thing is » Dinah, posted by Pfinstegg on May 3, 2005, at 17:14:15
Wouldn't it be more manipulative to tell him? If I don't, it has no chance of affecting his actions and therefore I can't possibly be being manipulative. It's a private decision.
If I tell him, it's a threat. And that would be just plain rude of me.
I told him I'd need time in a hospital, and we even discussed the mechanism of how it would work. He just forgot, that's all.
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