Posted by Dinah on May 3, 2005, at 12:11:56
In reply to No. :) Not at all. (nm) » Shortelise, posted by Dinah on May 3, 2005, at 12:07:24
He says that when I called him yesterday and suggested he brush up on his anatomy, he confessed that his thought was the same as mine. It would be hard to do without getting arrested.
He's never had a young daughter, never changed diapers or watched one grow up. And when he told me what he knew about the differences, it was clear that he didn't know about the differences.
We did agree that if things got stuck, we'd seek out a female sex therapist who practices in our area and see if she's willing to give a couple of consultation sessions.
But he found your posts immensely helpful in understanding that there really were differences, and at least some of the psychological impact of the differences.
Tamar, your paragraph on body dysmorphic disorder regarding sexuality was especially helpful.
So he thanks you and I thank you.
I know it's not an easy topic to discuss.
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