Posted by shrinking violet on April 30, 2005, at 13:27:11
In reply to Shrinking Violet (hands on hips) » shrinking violet, posted by Dinah on April 30, 2005, at 12:26:25
dinah your sweet and funny, thank you.
>> But. She is still your therapist for one more week, and emailing her (if that's how you contact her between sessions) the things you say here are what therapists are for.
---Thank you, but, she isn't there anymore. Not really. And I wuldn't take advatnage of her that way....I know she checks emails on the weekends, and I wouldn't bother her that way, or put her through that. Besides, what could she do, aside from threaten to lock me up.
>> ((((Shrinking Violet))))
--Thank you, I really need hugs right now. I wish you wre here to give one IRL.
>> If you can't manage it with her, perhaps another member of your team? And if not with them then ask for a referral for a therapist outside the university?--NO NO NO . Again, the members of my team, they aren't realy there anymore either. The only other person i'd go to besides my T is my nutritionist, but she isn't a T, so, I wouldn't lay this on her. And agin, it's the wekend. How much can be done through email, really. As for referalls, my T has tried given me some. I don't want them. I don't want this anymore, with anyone else. I'm past trying to want anything for myself, I get in my own way, and wouldn't put anyone else through what I've put my T through either. And for what.....it's a partnership, as my T says, and I've exited stage left a long time ago. I wish I never started any of this, I was better off before.
>> Sweet Shrinking Violet, as much as we want to help, you need someone IRL to support you at this difficult time. I'll lend you some of my courage to help you find someone.
--Your sweet, thank you. But there is no one. No one.
Thank you Dinah, I appreciate your taking the time. I hope you are well.
I apologieze for any typos..i tried to fix them all. I'm still woozy.SV
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