Posted by Tamar on April 29, 2005, at 15:18:24
In reply to Re: Tormenting myself... (longish) » Tamar, posted by Dinah on April 28, 2005, at 18:59:28
> The good news is that I don't think it was personal. I think it's just a tricky therapy topic and even the best therapists are on their best therapeutic behavior over it. So it wasn't like he was steeling himself for you to hit him with something unpleasant. It was probably more that he was gathering himself to be the best therapist he could be. Or at least that's always how I see it.
I so hope it wasn’t personal. It seems like the ultimate rejection: if he has to steel himself at the suggestion of the merest possibility that my unconscious could have placed him in a sexual role, then what does that say about me? Argh!
Trying hard to see the thing as a professional moment!
Thanks,
Tamar
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