Posted by daisym on March 7, 2005, at 0:15:29
In reply to Also physical proximity, posted by thewrite1 on March 6, 2005, at 12:15:17
I'm in awe of anyone who lets their therapist get closer than two feet. There are times I've longed for physical comfort, especially when I feel about 6 years old. And I've told him, and we talk about psychological holding. Which feels fine. If he actually ever touched me, I'd flee, I'm sure of it. I actually figure that is when I know I will be close to being done with therapy, when I'm comfortable with the idea of giving him a hug.
I think as you pass through age states and emotions, you will want and not want to be close. Parts of you might want her close, and parts don't. I'm sure she will understand if you talk to her about how conflicted you felt. It is common to cycle through emotions quickly at times.
Sounds like a tough session. Be kind to yourself.
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