Posted by wheeler on January 27, 2005, at 11:27:06
In reply to Offending my T?, posted by messadivoce on January 27, 2005, at 0:35:32
Well, let's see, I guess I have a couple of thoughts...
I'm not quite sure if you really want her to come or not. Regardless of all other outside factors, what do you truly want?
I'd say if you don't want her to come, then you don't have to invite her. I can't imagine her being offended at all. I'm sure she wants whats best for you and if not inviting her is the right thing for you at the moment, I'm sure she wouldn't have a problem.
On the other hand, if you really want her to come, I would ask her. I have been seeing my therapist for 4 years and I recently got married and asked her to attend. She only came to the ceremony and not the reception.
I understand your concern about other people knowing who she is, but isn't this the same people who also saw her for counseling? Most of my family and friends knew which person was my therapist and regardless of how they felt about it, I felt supported by her.
Anyway, like I said, I think it's important for you to decide what your really want and what works best for you.
Any chance you could talk to her about this?Good Luck, let's us know how you make out.
Wheeler
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