Posted by alexandra_k on December 27, 2004, at 16:17:27
In reply to To tell the truth, posted by Dinah on December 27, 2004, at 9:17:22
To tell the truth this may be a topic that none of us can discuss very objectively...
For those who don't know much about my situation I cannot let myself get very attached to my current t until I can figure out whether he is committed to working with me or not (I am not convinced that he is even capable of this).
So I hold back and devalue theraputic attachment...
But if I had someone who was committed to working with me no doubt I would melt and hold on to them so tight and be terrified that something would happen to them.
Would that be good for me?
Who knows. Really. It is hard to operationalise and data interpretation is horrid...I do believe that such things are possible of real world relationships. But they are hard to find / engineer and so if one cannot... well... therapy may well be the best there is.
That makes me feel sad.
But then it is a sad situation to start with.I am really sorry if I hurt anyone with my rambellings. not my intention.
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