Posted by vwoolf on December 17, 2004, at 13:19:56
In reply to Sex and Dependency - long, posted by Daisym on December 17, 2004, at 11:42:05
Yes, yes and yes!
I confuse sex with liking, wanting to please, need for attachment, and I try to get there by being intellectually and sexually seductive. I have told my T about my sexual feelings towards her (and towards my male Pdoc) and we have looked at how this doesn't really mean sexual attraction at all, but a need for comfort and attachment, confused by early experiences. And like your T, she has convinced me that nothing will ever happen.
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