Posted by daisym on October 2, 2004, at 22:12:42
In reply to Devastated by that agency -- again, posted by Racer on October 2, 2004, at 14:04:59
Racer, I will email you.
In the meantime, I think that part of the upset is having everything validated. I believe there is nothing more frustrating and upsetting than being confronted with irrational behavior that does not respond to any of your efforts at logic or reasoning. The idea of talking to a brick wall comes to mind.
And, it means you weren't the one in control. This is so hard to accept, at least for me. I want to believe that I can control ALL aspects of my life, and pretty much control people's response me. You've just been confronted with evidence that you couldn't make these people understand.
Please remember that these people had so many problems, in their system and with their approach. It wasn't you. They made you worse, not the reverse. Work towards putting it behind you.
I know, easier said than done.
poster:daisym
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