Posted by daisym on September 29, 2004, at 14:45:55
In reply to Paranoid about response, posted by RosieOGrady on September 29, 2004, at 12:40:37
You might want to bring this up with your therapist...have you talked about these feelings before in therapy?
Ok...that was so this thread doesn't get kicked off this Board and over to social. Not that it is a bad idea...
The hardest thing about Babble is that humor doesn't work sometimes, or sarcasm. Or sometimes people don't read everthing so they don't answer honest questions. Which is why I change the subject line...but I know other posters hate that. They feel like the thread has been
hi-jacked.It does hurt your feelings when you feel like you've been slapped, or ignored. It is hard to not take it as intentional. Typically it isn't. It is easy to say "let it go" but hard to put in practice. I'm sorry you were made to feel bad.
I surf some of the other boards here, especially social. I stay completely (OK, almost completely) away from Admin. I find it upsetting, and too much like my real life. But mostly I hang out here, because it is much more supportive and easy going. I don't/can't respond to every thread and sometimes I have a lot more time on my hands than others. But I try to add in where I can, hoping that everyone understand it isn't personal when I don't. I guess this is my way of encouraging you to find a balance of what works for you. That is how Babble works best.
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