Posted by Susan47 on September 8, 2004, at 20:34:52
In reply to Re: Ther therapist who fired me... » Dinah, posted by terrics on September 8, 2004, at 19:09:56
I wanted to watch the pitfalls in the beginning as well. But no matter how hard I tried I just had to let stuff evolve in its own way. I'm really actually quite pleased that my subconscious told me to know him as little as possible. It really helped to stay away from giving myself permission to intrude too seriously on his private life. The first time I ever called him at home, his son answered, went to get him, then the wife came on sounding *very* suspicious. Then he. I heard him walking through the house as we talked and I just had a sixth sense that he was putting an arm around his wife. For reassurance. Of course none of that might've happened but it was what my mind put forth, and I subsequently lived that through in therapy.
I'm sure you won't stalk anybody or abuse the telephone terrics. Trust yourself if you can; I think that really helps a lot.
I didn't proofread this post so I may have made some serious errors of omission or admission but ... that's life pffffffffffffffft.
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