Posted by lucy stone on August 3, 2004, at 18:20:36
In reply to Re: Anyone have a friend also work with your T? » pegasus, posted by sb417 on August 2, 2004, at 22:52:22
My T also will not work with family members or friends. He says it sets up a dual relationship. Of course, as someone said he may not know that he is doing so if it just sort of happens, that is if two people choose him without consultation with each other. When I talk about friends to him I never refer to them by name. That way if he is seeing someone I know he won't know I am talking about him/her. My husband ran into a collegue in his T's waiting room once and it was very akward. They were waiting for different Ts but he still was uncomfortable.
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