Posted by KindGirl on April 26, 2004, at 19:33:20
In reply to Re: Online Book from Paul Vereshack » tabitha, posted by Dinah on April 25, 2004, at 17:12:03
Hey everyone,
You all know (if you have read anything by me) that my T holds me every session. Last session I asked her to hold me the whole hour. I love it when she holds me, and when she started holding me, oddly enough the sexual feelings/fantasies went away and I saw her more of a mother figure from that point on. I see her on Thursday and I am going to ask her to hold me again.She has been a therapist for 20 plus years and is very well known in my area, and I am so glad I got the nerve to ask her. I was left alone and physically neglected since I was an infant, and I know I crave this so much. She always thanks me for letting me hold her and for sharing my tears with her....there is nothing like it in the world to be held by someone who knows you, who sees you, and who cares.
Best of luck to you if/when you ask (or don't ask!)
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