Posted by antigua on March 10, 2004, at 14:20:54
In reply to Re: the couch.. » antigua, posted by CareBear04 on March 10, 2004, at 12:41:03
I don't mind when she comments, but of course she never tells me if I look like h@@ll. She says she can tell my mood by just looking at me walk in the door. No secrets here.
Today was funny, though. I was getting dressed this morning thinking of you guys, laughing a little and enjoying your fun vicariously, and decided to wear black jeans and jacket. I couldn't decide between two red tops--one was bright red, which I don't usually wear unless I feel good, and a more reddish/burgandy. I debated and decided on the more muted color. Walked into my T's office and she said, "O.k., who dressed us this morning?" She was wearing the black outfit with the bright red top (not jeans, of course, tailored slacks). She noticed before I did today. I told her that I had almost worn that and she said she wore the more muted red yesterday. Talk about a connection.
I told her about this thread and she loved it.
Then she told me how much fun it is to work w/couples in counseling and to see what they wear. She says they can be sitting there fighting, and one will be wearing, for example, a green shirt and brown pants and the other will be dressed oppositely--brown shirt and green pants and they don't even notice. She says it happens all the time, she can tell a lot by what someone wears.So, see, they do notice our clothes--so ENJOY the flirtation, it's good for you.
antigua
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