Posted by lookdownfish on March 3, 2004, at 8:14:26
In reply to Your SO and your relationship with your T, posted by tinydancer on March 3, 2004, at 7:39:21
My husband sometimes asks how therapy went if he remembers, but is not usually particularly keen on discussing it at length. I guess he's just hoping I will finish soon to save us some money.
I have once or twice indicated to him how much my T means to me and how much I think about her. He has been quite understanding about this, but I don't mention it very often. He doesn't seem to be jealous, probably relieved that I take my neediness somewhere else. He is however a bit paranoid that he is portrayed as a terrible husband and that my T is critical of our relationship. He doesn't like anything that might rock his status quo.
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