Posted by pinkeye on February 17, 2004, at 13:34:07
In reply to Re: Ex-Therapist is taking me to Court!!!, posted by terrics on February 17, 2004, at 10:07:50
I think some attachment and obsession with the therapist is normal, but if it comes to the point where your therapist feels uncomfortable and endangered, maybe it is time for you to back off. Don't push it too hard, and even if you don't get a closure, for now, accept that and go to another therapist. Maybe later, after some time gap (maybe about 6 months), you can call her again to seek for a closure. She might also gain enough confidence in you if you don't contact her for some time and might be willilng to lead you into a better closure in the future.
Instead if you keep pushing, you just risk yourselves with court order etc etc .. all the nasty stuff, and you also lose the chance of ever getting a closure with your therapist.
Sometimes just accepting and letting go is the best way to keep a relationship from turning too sour.
PinkEye.
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