Posted by Karen_kay on February 16, 2004, at 12:57:44
In reply to Re: feeling hurt and abandoned » Karen_kay, posted by crushedout on February 16, 2004, at 11:54:29
Ahhhh.... (((((((crushed))))))) Big hug for your situation with your mom and that's all I'll say about that...
I highly doubt your therapist was holding off on talking to you for "personal" reasons. I know that if my therapist and I fight, at the next session if he's late to get me from the waiting room, I fear it's because I've done something wrong. Those negative thought patterns get me every time :)
It hurts when your biggest support system isn't right at your fingertips, especially when you need that person the most. But, try not to take it personally, OK? She did email you after all.. That's more than I get. I usually get accusations that I'm pranking him. Bubba's funny like that. But, I'm used to him by now.
Are you going to call her today to talk about it? You should. I'd only talk about the family situation and save the email and phone call until my next session, as that may take a while, if it does in fact have something to do with enforcing boundaries. But, I doubt that's what it is. Let me know what happens, K? I'm listening with 2 ears :)
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