Posted by crushedout on February 12, 2004, at 9:09:15
In reply to Re: Love and fireworks (and embarrassment), posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 12, 2004, at 8:36:24
of course that's what you mean. it sounds to me like if your child were in this situation, it would make *you* uncomfortable, eh?
as for me, god, i have no idea. ideally, no, but it's really hard for me to imagine. i will tell you that i've chosen not to tell my parents about this because i'm pretty sure they'd get alarmed. but they're kinda uptight and judgmental compared to me, so i hope i won't be like that when i have kids.
i think a lot of parents are simply uncomfortable with their kids *having* a sexuality at all. that's what i want to avoid.
but, if i thought that a t was *exploiting* my kid, of course that would make me uncomfortable. if i thought my kid was going to get hurt, i'd definitely be worried. but i don't feel in my heart that either of those things are true.
> Crushed,
>
> If a child of yours were in this same situation, would you feel comfortable with it?
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