Posted by Karen_kay on January 18, 2004, at 11:46:37
In reply to Re: two more links, posted by Joslynn on January 18, 2004, at 1:01:29
While I agree completely that the links were interesting, I must admit they had me SCARED for a while. I know that wasn't your intention. And I wasn't scared that he was acting inappropriately, I was scared that he was considering terminating me. But, I just had to remember that I am one of his favorite clients and all those thoughts deminished :)
I'm quite certain his actions (whoops, did I actually write actions? I meant to write ??Words maybe? Phrashing??) aren't suited for everyone. And I'm also certainhe isn't nearly this relaxed with his other clients. It's jsut that we do have this type of relaionship where I prefer it to remain more casual, so I can trust him and I can open up. My results have proven the effectiveness. I'm less resistant. And I don't have the "Ill-fated Transference Crush" on him as I did when I first began seeing him. He didn't seem to act this way as much when I was experiencing the so called crush.
So, if the results prove in favor of the treatment, I say "Why not?"...
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