Posted by Dinah on December 10, 2003, at 10:18:46
In reply to Purpose in continuing therapy???, posted by Penny on December 10, 2003, at 10:01:05
Sounds typically therapeutic. They really aren't supposed to give advice, but to do things like correct distorted cognitions. My therapist sometimes errs on the other side and gets frustrated when he can't think of advice that would be helpful when what I really need for him is to listen, not to "fix". I guess sometimes you can't take the man out of the therapist.
You might be honest with her and tell her that temporarily you need a bit more coaching and counselling than she may be comfortable with. Does she think she can help you. Because it is true that when life circumstances are folding in on you it's hard to concentrate on therapy concerns.
So is a financial counselor or career consultant a possibility? Is there any assistance available through your EAP program? I know you said you can't afford the legal fees to file bankruptcy. Is that what you need to do? If so, are there any legal aid facilities in your area? Do you have other support resources for more pragmatic advice?
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