Posted by mair on November 11, 2003, at 15:30:50
In reply to Re: Abrupt Session Ending, posted by DaisyM on November 11, 2003, at 14:18:15
I think it is reasonable for you to have access to a clock. In my own therapist's office, I keep closer tabs on the time than she does. Sometimes it's just because I'm looking for an escape, and maybe your therapist would say I shouldn't be focused on time in that way. However, I also may choose not to bring something up if I know there is very little time left to discuss it. This is perfectly legitimate. Maybe your therapist might say that he/she doesn't want me to fail to bring something up on account of time running out, but if he isn't going to extend the session, you should be able to know how much time is left. I can see how it would be upsetting to be cut off abruptly. The only way to avoid this is for you to be able to monitor the time as well.
I can also see how this all may dovetail with the topic for discussion, but I think you wouldn't like an abrupt cut-off regardless of topic.
Mair
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