Posted by deirdrehbrt on June 15, 2003, at 21:52:40
In reply to Re: Termination » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2003, at 21:21:52
fallsfall,
I think that you take somewhat of a risk however you deal with your question. If you ignore it, you may run the risk of worrying about it for quite some time. If you do ask, you run the risk of receiving a response that you don't really want. Perhaps if you phrase the question in a way that lets her understand your feeling of vulnerability, she might be able to be more careful with her reply.
I suppose though, that maybe the forgiveness you need comes more from yourself. I think that perhaps the person who was most disappointed by your action was you. You seem to be tearing yourself up a great deal still.
As to what questions to ask, I would ask her of a list of things that she might want your new therapist to know. What things do you have difficulty with? What worked? What didn't?
I hope you find your way.
Dee.
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