Posted by Jost on October 29, 2006, at 22:59:09
In reply to I need help from those who have been through it..., posted by JabberwockyAmy on October 29, 2006, at 16:50:39
Hi, JabberwockyAmy.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation with your Mom. It's very hard to have a parent make that sort of choice-- even though you're not being abused now as a result of her being with this man-- her decision to be with him despite your experience seems unusual and must be very hurtful.
There are others on this board who may have more insight into the experience of sexual abuse by family member than I do, because they've experienced it themselves, and have worked on it in therapy and in their lives.
I highly recommend the Psychology Board, or even the Self-Esteem Board as good places to start.
For issues more related to medications, such as weight gain, or perhaps other meds that might be good to try, or questions about dosage, addiction potential, the main Psychobabble board is a great place, too.
I was wondering over how long a period you'd gained the weight? Have you noticed any change in your exercise or diet?
I can fully understand your concern about weight-- it's a health as well as self-esteem issue. And given how much you've gone through, it's important to address that before it starts to feel overwhelming.
Actually, your questions are great-- it's just that there are so many more people on the Main Board-- and I'm not the best person to answer your questions-- so I really encourage you to check that out.Even though it's up to you-- you can't do it alone-- support and information, among other things, can make a difference.
So I hope to see you around.
Jost
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