Posted by cockeyed on June 24, 2005, at 23:54:36
In reply to im lost, posted by mr. me on June 19, 2005, at 0:10:40
Now look here, Mr. me, I'm 63 and when I was 20 I was really lost, i.e., psychotic. But your buddy probably had too many Bud's. A kid is a life long commitment to really being lost. I mean having a kid is becoming god. And if you're 20 you can do yourself a favor by deciding that nobody has the right to tell you you should "have" a kid. A kid ain't a toy or a car. You work. You're lucky you can. I can't I'm disabled. You're probably going to have enuff problems anyway as you navigate the minefield of your twenties. Live your life not some buddy's. You're young enuff to do whatever and not have to worry about being over the hill. Hey, enjoy your youthful angst. You will grow up, it's called getting older and wiser. Up to a point it's a great trip, then you begin to find out what being "old" really means and wish you could be say, about 12 or 16. I would not ever want to have to go thru my 20's again. I had to grow up. And I didn't know how to. But it sure doesn't mean you have to have a kid or any such batchelor party crap as that. cockeyed.
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