Posted by stressed on September 30, 2004, at 19:22:33
In reply to Re: OK, deep breath here. » AdaGrace, posted by partlycloudy on September 22, 2004, at 9:53:44
Hello AdaGrace! I am new here, and have been reading many postings and asking questions all over this site. My Gosh, I have several friends who are and were in your shoes. I know what it's like to be so depressed over a man that you can't remember what you have done for the last day or so. To be numb and dead inside. You need to be the one to pull yourself up. Listen to your husband. He must truly love you to be able to say he thinks you are beautiful and that he loves you after the past four years. I takes something I surely don't know about, to be able to forgive, and it sounds as if he is trying to do that. I'm sure you do feel guilt. I feel guilt over things too, but you can only go foward from here. Life is not a dress rehearsal, it's the real thing and a one time shot. I really think if you start from this day, right now, and go forward doing good things for your family that you will find you feel somewhat better. I don't want you to take this the wrong way, because I really feel for you. I know that you can overcome this and be a better person for it. I think God puts us through things for a reason. We don't know why at the time. (That's why I am now a member on this forum, I need support also)
Hang in there, and let me know how it's going. Do something good for yourself this weekend. Just one thing. OK?
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