Posted by Dinah on January 18, 2005, at 20:58:17
I generally like to get things finished as soon as possible, if they're somewhat disruptive. Daddy left me as executor of his estate, and I was planning to get everything done relatively quickly. But now I'm in the place to do that, I have this odd feeling that if I settle things, I'll be letting go of him. And that I'm not ready to do that.
I know that's silly. The things that will always link me to Daddy aren't names on a deed or on a bank account. But while I'm taking care of his affairs, I'm still taking care of *him*, the way he liked to be taken care of.
poster:Dinah
thread:443978
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