Posted by rainyday on February 17, 2004, at 11:04:52
In reply to Re: no fathers support! » AntiTrust, posted by AntiTrust on February 14, 2004, at 16:28:03
> my gosh and it looks like no support here either! how wonderful! NOT
I wasn't sure if I could contribute here or not. My first husband's family was like this: picking sides, refusing to talk, basically hurting repeatedly. Some families have a generational history of this behavior. What I saw and experienced was how destructive this transferred hatred can be - and how I finally cut my losses; not with equally hurtful words, but by saying goodbye, and going on.
Hope this helps.
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