Posted by fayeroe on June 19, 2008, at 13:00:55
In reply to Re: Not much self-esteem here in Texas, posted by Sigismund on June 18, 2008, at 20:54:49
> >If I had done this, said that, acted that way, or not......would I feel better? Probably not.
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> We are back then to the free will thingo?
> I'm good at regrets myself but have no idea if I could have done things differently without being different.
> But we somehow need to believe we could, that we had free choice.
> You think?You are right......my stuff was going on long before I was born. I just forget that.
If I did things differently, yes I wouldn't be the cool person that I am. Less mistakes, but not cool.
You are a very wonderful friend, yes you are!
Both posts help lift me out of my squandering in self-pity and confusion.I saw MERLE HAGGARD last night!!!!!!
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