Posted by JenStar on October 1, 2005, at 0:44:42
In reply to Thanks all.. I guess the answer is no for now !!, posted by orchid on August 17, 2005, at 14:41:51
hi Orchid,
I'm sorry you're still feeling trapped in your marriage. I understand the desire for kids - I want a child very much, too!I think Dinah's advice was right on the money. Would your home be a good, safe, caring and loving place for a child to grow up? Would the child learn to respect women the way you WANT and DESERVE to be respected?
You are right about waiting. If you keep waiting, things CAN slip through your fingers and disappear -- things like fertility and ability to raise a child. However, that's not the only reason to have one (just because you CAN.) I think it's also important to be sure that this is a future you want for yourself and the child -- a future with THIS man, THIS country, THIS culture.
I hope you're able to make a decision that is right for you. And it's good to see you posting again. :)
jenStar
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