Posted by Shell on November 10, 2000, at 9:54:56
In reply to Re: Academic achievements and mood swings, posted by ginbro on November 6, 2000, at 21:05:23
I am both a parent (of small children) and a part-time college student. I can understand how important academic success can seem. I was tempted to retake the GRE, even though I got a 2180, because I felt I needed a better score. Why? What difference would that make? I wasn't worried that I wouldn't be admitted; it just bothered me. I still regret (more than ten years later) the less than stellar grades I got as an undergradute (3.5). Right now, I have a 4.0, but each course I complete only increases the pressure to not screw up my perfect GPA. I have actually taken a break from classes because my depression has taken a turn for the worse and I can't deal with the fact that it will affect my grades.
Having said all that, is the way I feel healthy or appropriate? No, I am sure it is not. I have OCD in addition to depression and I suspect that it also plays a part in my feelings about grades. Sometimes, I have to remind myself that this may affect my thinking.
I agree with everything Ginbro has said -- his (hers?) is the proper perspective, not mine. I just wanted you to know that there are other people (even parents!) that do understand how you feel.
Shell
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