Posted by sunny10 on February 24, 2005, at 14:17:24 [reposted on February 26, 2005, at 3:01:42 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Anybody have any Advice? My daughter » Susan47, posted by TamaraJ on February 24, 2005, at 12:49:12
Maybe you both need to take some time together pampering yourselves... you know, a "because we're worth it" kind of day.
You are one of the most creative people I know... put together a "spa day" for the two of you at home.
Build her up "it's not a special day, we're doing this just because you're wonderful and special and so am I"...
Little things show a lot.
Also remember that children notice everything- if you're upset about "love", she may be afraid of it...
Let her know that you know you will find that special someone again, and that you know she'll find someone special to her.
I have chats like this with my son,too!!! And we "pamper" ourselves with stuff like baking cookies- well, just 'cause I figured that the mani's and pedi's just weren't going to cut it with him!!!
MWAH
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