Posted by jane d on July 19, 2013, at 1:28:29
In reply to Re: anxiety about Babble and me » Dr. Bob, posted by SLS on July 18, 2013, at 3:21:16
> as Psycho-Babble now has only Lou Pilder and discussions about Lou Pilder to offer.
I don't think that's completely true. It does seem to be ONE of the favorite topics these days and I wish it wasn't. But then I wasn't thrilled when every other thread seemed to be about neurontin either (remember that?).
> It burns my *ss that Lou Pilder has won.
It really sounds as though you have perhaps accidentally slipped into viewing this as a competition which one of you has to win. Or even can win. And if Lou wins, you lose? That just makes no sense to me. Lou's posts have nothing to do with you and don't reflect on you in any way. Yours don't have much to do with him. I worry that you have started thinking about this in a way that is causing you pain and that may force you to take positions it could be hard to retreat from.
Please believe me that I am not trying to insult you. You're free to disagree with everything I say but don't waste time looking for hidden meanings. This is one of those nights where the words just won't come smoothly.
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