Re: If you Can't Say Anything Nice Talk To Me » SLS

Posted by zazenducke on July 14, 2012, at 7:20:35 [reposted on July 14, 2012, at 19:26:24 | original URL]

In reply to Re: If you Can't Say Anything Nice Talk To Me » zazenducke, posted by SLS on July 14, 2012, at 0:44:49

> > Dinah my personal experience and observation of you was that you bullied others during your time as a deputy.
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> Where was I during these times? I was gone for about 1 1/2 years several years ago. Maybe these things occurred during my absence? Otherwise, I must disagree with your opinion. I don't know what you experienced personally or otherwise observed, but the word "bullying" represents a judgment of a behavior, and not the behavior itself. My best guess is that you and I read the same posts, but perceived them very differently.

Of course it represents a judgement Scott. Judgement is not a bad thing! Your belief that you were mistreated during your childhood is just a judgement on your part. If nobody agreed with your judgement would it mean it didn't happen?
Bullying can easily be condoned or overlooked by people who choose to. And part of the Babble culture included just that.

I did not see behaviors of Dinah that would lead me to judge her actions to be bullying.
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I wouldn't expect you to Scott, but not because they weren't as I described. You are very invested in the status quo here and your deference towards authority has always been remarkable.
> Perhaps this thread should be redirected to Administration.
Please direct your future responses to Administration. Be the change you want to see!!!
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> - Scott

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