Posted by 10derheart on June 17, 2011, at 18:40:05
In reply to Lou's response-lohndizntr » 10derheart, posted by Lou Pilder on June 17, 2011, at 17:23:36
>>What is important to me is that someone other than me has posted about some of my concerns.
Naturally.
Something else in the post was important to me. Naturally.
>I do not see how anyine could know who the tot is.
They could ask instead of assuming. Or, choose to keep up with this board, The picture was put up 4 months ago and I posted who it was:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20110117/msgs/979448.html
>>And IMHO,some could reasonably think that since the owner of the site has posted his pic before, that the pic of the tot was in some way possible to be a child that the owner chose in some way.
Dr. Bob chooses all the photos - it is his site. It has not been unusual over the years for them to be submitted by Babblers. As I said, all jussayin had to do was ask.
>>Now as to if the posting of the tot's pic could have repercussions to the tot in the future, there are child psychiatrists that could answer that.
I don't think that's necessary.
>>I do not see the poster implying anything by asking if the picture is related to the thread's question.
I do.
>>Since there is not an explanation of the pic,
But, there was. Jussayin could have opted to try and discover the explanation with one simple question.
>>then there could be projection by viewers.
Yes, clearly.
Lou, if you do not find any negative implications in statements about "owning" our children and choosing to use a term such as "bath clothes" and speculate that she is sure to "appreciate" "that" when she's old enough to "know what happened," then perhaps you are a far better person than I - good for you. If you truly believe posting a beautiful child's picture because I love her and love for others to enjoy the beauty of all children because they **are** children, and you want to link it somehow to why posting is down on Babble, that is your prerogative. I don't understand the connection.
You be well, Lou. We all have our priorities and lens through which we view everything.
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