Posted by fleeting flutterby on November 10, 2009, at 10:04:23
In reply to That's not why., posted by Nadezda on November 9, 2009, at 17:53:42
> Why can't we all look at our part in this, and try to learn something from it?<<
--flutterby: Ah, yes-- I should have not trusted someone-- that they would not change things without prior notice to the members. It is my fault.... just like my husband blames me for his abusive behavior..... I should have not trusted... that is my part in this.
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> I'm trying. I know it isn't easy, but perhaps there is something positive in this, if we can look at how we each handled things, and see how we might have handled things better.
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> Nadezda<<---flutterby: Looks like those that spoke their feelings of vulnerability were poo-pood.... hmmmmm..... seems quite like the harsh world out there-- I mistakenly thought a mental health support site was to be compassionate and that the admin would keep those most vulnerable in mind when considering changes.... ....
something positive in this??? well, I learned that there are wolves in sheep clothing even when looking for support and understanding. though I was being careful-- I will be even more vigilent.ps..... I have a strange feeling that this whole thing was an experiment and the "students" are having a hayday with how each of us are reacting, in our differing ways, depending on how we were abused in our way past...... ( maybe a bit paranoid? well, stress/unpredictabilty can bring that out in some of us most fragile beings....)
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