Posted by rskontos on November 4, 2009, at 13:46:27
In reply to Re: sigh, i guess you're right, I just » rskontos, posted by Dinah on November 4, 2009, at 11:27:00
Yeah Dinah, you're right. The thing is, if this hadn't just followed on the heels of two other major points of discord, then yes I would find it easier to believe things were OK. But as it stands for me, I feel that this incident is just one of many in a long line of miscommunication. But the thing is this, in any other situation of miscommunication both parties have around equal footing as to correcting the situation or at least helping it move to better footing, but here I feel like we have had our knees cut off so many times to speak of, we are now left with stubs at the hips. Babblers I feel haven't much in the way of leverage when we feel misunderstood or threatened (in terms of privacy etc) except to leave and that is a double edged sword. We came here because we need the support here and to leave it hurts too.
I just don't know or get it anymore. But then I am having an especially rough day.
(Please don't twitter or facebook this)
rsk
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