Posted by Dr. Bob on August 16, 2009, at 16:04:00
In reply to Re: feeling uncomfortable » Deneb, posted by BayLeaf on August 10, 2009, at 20:54:35
> imo socializing with you is doing the opposite of this - "maintains appropriate boundaries and doesn't reinforce your behavior"
Please don't post anything that could lead others (including me) to feel accused.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
I do hope that you choose to remain a member of this community and that this community helps you, if needed, to avoid future blocks. Deneb and Phillipa, thanks for trying to help this time.
More information about posting policies and tips on alternative ways to express oneself are in the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
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> when someone suggest you change YOUR behavior....whoa!! You throw out the apology card? Um, no I don't feel supported.
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> Is expressing that wrong?IMO, expressing what you did the way you did was uncivil. Simply suggesting that I change my behavior might have been civil. The role of members of this group is to support and educate each other, and my role is to manage this group.
Bob
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