Posted by Deneb on April 12, 2009, at 22:52:45
In reply to Still not over Dr. Bob, posted by Deneb on April 12, 2009, at 22:10:53
At first glance it looks like there is nothing to get over because Dr. Bob never had a relationship with me.
I think I just interpreted things that way.
Well I know intellectually that Dr. Bob couldn't be my friend, but I don't know about emotionally.
I think at times I really thought Dr. Bob was my friend, or felt like it anyways.
It doesn't help that Dr. Bob is so mysterious in the way he interacts with us, although he seems to be getting better these few days and we get a glimpse of what he is thinking.
I also wish Dr. Bob cared about me. He probably doesn't give me much though. Why does it matter so much? My pdoc says it is because if people care about it, it means I am a lovable, worthwhile person. I know others care about me here. I don't know why it is important that I think Dr. Bob does.
Maybe it goes back to my shaky attachments to my parents.
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