Posted by fayeroe on April 12, 2009, at 17:01:04
In reply to Re: why we are here, posted by Dr. Bob on April 12, 2009, at 15:11:29
What I was thinking while eating a homemade sticky bun........
Bob, it isn't that I don't like you for I've never met you and I can't dislike you if I don't know you. What I dislike, heartily, is your behavior.
Your behavior indicates to me that you have a real disconnect with people. Probably any "people".
I asked you a long time ago if you felt inadequate when it comes to dealing with others. (close..I don't remember the exact words) You didn't answer my question. You didn't even answer it with a question.
I've been here since 2002 ( I think ) and when I came, I like many others thought that I could help change you for the better. I was full of piss and vinegar and because Babble members helped me dealing with the problems of Effexor, I wanted to give back. (that sounds as good as anything, doesn't it?)
I offered up my hostess present and the host didn't want it. I don't believe, now, that the hostess even opened it. I saw others doing the same, offering up little boxes and the hostess rejected the gifts.
Doing something over and over and expecting anything (here) to happen is the definition of crazy in my book.
I see that more hostess gifts are offered over the years and I turn away so as not to see the giver's hurt when the package comes back into their face. Protest, deal making, begging,complimenting, reasoning..they are all in the package but if it isn't opened, no one will ever know it.
That I think is the secret to your success. Just don't open the DAMNED package and everything will be A-Okay!
In closing I'd like to say this to you..someday there won't be any hostess gifts to be found. No one will come to the party for one.
p.s. if you can find one poster who became a better person after being blocked, i'll...actually i don't know what i will do..i keep nodding off because i ate so many good sticky buns.
poster:fayeroe
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