Posted by myco on April 3, 2009, at 13:57:35
In reply to Re: Blocks » verne, posted by fayeroe on April 3, 2009, at 10:08:42
This starts from within here, this board. it's the "aura" of this board that creates an environment in which some people cant be themselves without offending others...even though you direct nothing at anyone. Some tend to allow their negative perceptions and interpretations, spawned from their own inner issues, to make attempts to censure others and take offence where none is meant. But I guess it takes all kinds of personalities.
If this kind of thing loosened up within the boards members...bob wouldnt feel compelled to do this as much...he has to play the role of monitor for school children it seems...babysitting and this is one way to make an attempt to enforce a "no fighting" policy...to protect those who are insecure.
Not much you can do really...just abide. EVeryone of all personalities will use this board regardless so it's futile to fight administration here. In their defense, they do spend alot of time babysitting here thats for sure. I'm guessing bob has to be called in on occasion to make a decision based on something theyve noticed...and im guessing he has minimal time for this so...enforcing rule of law is probably the best way even though many may not agree. I'm learning this...touchy touchy...lots of us here.
> Verne, I agree 100% with you on the block system. I have given up on hoping that Bob will see the light and make the changes that I see necessary to empower people to grow and heal.
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> I miss you. I wish that we could talk. Pat
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