Posted by Amigan on November 19, 2008, at 15:17:49
I believe that i have waited long enough for him to reply to my mail and i think it's time for me to do my last post in this place.
Once upon a time, psycho-babble was a great board to participate in and i thought that i had found a new home.
From a certain point and on, i realised that most people started to ignore my posts.. (Apart from the usual person who replies to every thread. You know...) At the beginning, i tried to convince myself that everything was fine, that it was something coincidental and that it was just me... But the thing kept going and going at a degree that there was absolutely no point in opening a thread, (even if i was on an emergency) as i KNEW in advance that my question will have the same luck as my previous ones.What REALLY puzzles me, (and what made me post this message instead of just fleeing and forget about this issue) is that i always tried to behave according the written and unwritten rules of internet's savoir-vivre:
I wasn't flooding the board with everyday questions.
I was always trying to reply to other's people questions when i've had something useful to say. (My knowledge is limited)
I was trying not to troll, harrass and generally, do nothing that would justify what i.. was observing!So.. i decided to send a PM to teh doctor, seeking for a REASONABLE answer to this unexplained phenomenon which i was observing with my own eyes...
And here is my firsts message to him:
" Hello Doctor.
May i ask you something regarding me and psycho-babble? But i'm expecting a sincere answer from you.
Amigan."(A note to anyone who's reading this: Emphasize on the word "SINCERE" for future reference)
He replied via an email, not PM, saying:
"Sure, what's your question?Bob"
I replied his mail by saying the following:
"Well, i have noticed lately that most of my have been provocatively and
repeatedly ignored by most, if not all, of the psycho-babble members,
in a degree that i feel it is pointless to participate any longer. I have
created a thread about this situation on the administrator board.
You might say that this is a global phenomenon that has to do with the
crisis which the forum has entered lately and that it affects all members,
but i see that this lack of participation is mainly aimed on... ME, while
posts of other members ALWAYS take more attention than mine even if their
content is ehm.. silly/ been answered a thousand times or even if the poster
in question is a casual flooder/offender.
I HATE to be ignored and, believe me, i have left from many forums because
of this reason. (I do know that i sound like an attention-drawer right now,
but i'm so NOT)
I don't think that i am delusional. It is something that happens for real.
I can SEE that it happens and i REALLY like to know why it happens because
i'm sick of leaving forums because of this.So... what i would like to ask you is this:
I have many cyber-enemies.. Some of them may or may not be spreading false-
rumours over the internet about me. Have any of them contacted you or any of
your deputies and spilled their lying poison regarding myself? I do know that
i'm getting a bit paranoid or over-suspicious in this point, BUT i have
absolutely no alternative explanation of what i observe.
Don't take this message as a complain about you and your forum, please,
because it is not! All i want is an answer.Thank you in advance for your sincerity.
Amigan."Now, exactly 1 month later, i haven't got a reply from him and i'm not going to, obviously.
I guess he isn't... SINCERE enough to reply...
But, ven if he thought that i am a delusional nut-case, do you think that this would justify his unwillingness to reply to me? He IS a psychiatrist you know... He deals with this type of people everyday.** TO CUT THE LONG STORY SORT **
Anyway, on what made me bother to make this post.. Well, i am determined to find out what's going on. In fact i have the RIGHT to know what's going on. Therefore i would be obligated to anyone who has any information to give me about this, if he/she steals 5 minutes of his/her time to send me an email to: des_pina@freemail.gr
You don't have to say who you are of course! Use your spare e-mail address or whatever. I absolutely RESPECT your anonymity and anything you say will remain between you and me.Thank you. By "you", i mean to anyone who will decide to contact me. I have no reason to thank anyone else in this.. ehm... place.
bye.
poster:Amigan
thread:864026
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20081003/msgs/864026.html