Posted by muffled on April 9, 2008, at 21:01:56
In reply to Juvenile, posted by AbbieNormal on April 9, 2008, at 19:37:53
> It would be really swell if people would not call others here juvenile for expressing their feelings. Feelings are REALLY important.
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> Invalidating a person's feelings is like saying that as people they don't count. It's something kids hear a lot. It's something that trauma survivors experienced a LOT.
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> Abbie* Juvenile,ya, kinda sucked,you are right abbie, but its OK, we all got our stuff and we all gonna have our moments. Maybe they were not expressed in the best way possible, but the feelings were expressed maybe in the way the person knew how, just like my Toughie and its swears. We need to learn to try and be as kind as we are able to be when we can.....cuz its not always possible!!!! LOL!!! I have my moments,,,ack!
There was a discussion some time ago, bout using Bob as the 'fall guy' here on babble. I think as long as we not terribly uncivil, he don't really mind. If it keeps the peace in general, I expect he don't really mind.
As for love to swim, I hope we have not scared her/him away, as babble is a place that is pretty darn accepting, at least that is what I have found. I think this poster can find a place here.
Take care
M
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