Posted by greywolf on March 25, 2008, at 19:23:31
In reply to Re: Thank you for understanding, posted by rskontos on March 25, 2008, at 13:21:07
> Toph, I wrestled with responded to greywolf's comment and I am glad you said what you said, as I agreed. I have been upset by the latecomers that have seemed to me to have taken away my rights to express my frustrations to Bob's handling of this affair and the fallout I felt. I have actually be made to feel bad that I ever even posted to this board by posters that just returned and I feel that I have respected the rights of others so much that I keep deleting posts so I don't step on their rights; however I feel that my own rights are not being respected. I respectfully addressed my feelings to Dr Bob and he has now responded to some of these. I hope others that just joined in late will try to respect this and think hard about how some of what they write or state might make some of us feel put down in trying to make ourselves heard. That is all I humbly asked.
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> Thank you Toph for your responses that were helpful to me to finally find my own voice, respectfully I hope as I don't want to hurt anyone else but need to say what I want to say. If I can't say it here, where else do I say it. I am own these feelings as well Bob, for if this is the wrong way to say any of this , I am truly at a loss. (As I did think long and hard.)
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> rsk1. Just so you're aware, I'm not a latecomer. I've been around here for a few years now. I took a break of a few months to work on some intensive therapy, and I felt it might be helpful to be away from this and other sources of support while I focused on the struggle.
2. Nothing I wrote was directed in any way at any particular individual.
3. I stand by my view that, without regard to your individual situation, there are certainly times when restraint is appropriate. I think that's particularly the case when things start getting personal or repetitive.
Greywolf
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