Posted by Dr. Bob on January 20, 2007, at 12:25:32
In reply to Re: feeling afraid and ignored » Dr. Bob, posted by wishingstar on January 20, 2007, at 9:37:55
> > > X writes that she feels that Y has put her in a situation that makes her feel extremely uncomfortable.
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> > > Y writes that if he cannot speak with X and find out how to feel better, that he will continue to feel suicidal.
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> > X saying Y had made her feel uncomfortable probably would be considered something that could lead Y to feel accused. Y saying X would make him feel suicidal probably would be considered something that could lead X to feel pressured.
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> I just want to say that I personally would feel very accused and put down if I were in the position of the second poster there (the one who you wrote would feel pressured).If you were X, you mean? It's not OK for Y to pressure X, either. Like it's not OK for Y to accuse or put down X. People feeling pressured is a problem, too, not just people feeling accused.
Bob
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