Posted by Happyflower on January 18, 2007, at 7:06:34
In reply to Re: allowances ... Deneb and » Dr. Bob, posted by tofuemmy on January 18, 2007, at 6:05:45
A person who is threatening sucide says it is due to because of what her mother said to her?
What if her mother was a babble member? There are hundreds of members who do not post, so do we really know?
So is it okay to threaten sucide due to what her mother said and post it on babble? How is that different than directly and indirectly threatening sucide torwards me if I don't stop ignoring a member (due to my self protection, by the way)
Saying certain things about lets say a president, would be concidered uncivil, right? I don't know the president, maybe he is a member, maybe not. But is seems like the president is protected by so called uncivil actions. Well what about this mother in this case?
Why is this coming up again after all this time? Well because I was blocked for 3 weeks for mentioning (on admin) for behavior that I felt was uncivil torwards me. I feel my post was taken out of context of my entire post. I didn't know the exact rules for reporting about a problem and I have been a member for over a year. It seems like when I did read the rules (before they were changed, again) that we can us admin. board to report these infractions. I included my previous posts of "do not post to me" and showed the posts where I felt I was talked to in a post using my name even. From what my understanding was of the rules at that time was if someone posts to you after you do a "do not post" , they would get a block. I even showed more than one post (on the same thread) where I believe I was mentioned again, and nothing was done.
Well then there would be some that would think well, a deputy didn't post a do not pressure, so even though there was several posts, emails, and chats where this was happening, that person seemed to be cleared.Well the I see it also as a problem where a deputy does nothing or delays doing something, even if I requested help in the matter on admin. So not saying anything to the person doing the behavior, allows them to do it even more, until they do get a warning. Then they stop the behavior, and after already doing the behavior several times, gets away with it because nothing was done in the appropiate timing.
It seems to me that things will and do get worse when nothing is done in a timely manner. I know deputies can't be everywhere all the time. But in this case there was more than one who read the post, and only did something much too late. I feel my complaint was ignored and then I get blocked for even mentioning the offending behavior (not using any names) torwards me out of frusteration because nothing was being done. Then I get blocked because I am complaining about it. (on admin., which I thought that was what admin. was suppose to be for if youhave a problem with the site). All my other means of reporting was ignored, so I felt I had to put it on admin for it to be taken seriously that I felt harrassed and being treated uncivil. Then I felt ignored when reporting these behaviors, I know i wasn't perfect in reporting them in the perfect way, but I did report it and felt I was ignored. , Then all of sudden there were plenty of duputies to give me a block for compaining about it, while the real reason for my posting was ignored once again.
Then why is this coming up now? Well I wasn't allowed to say anything, was I? I was silenced for 3 weeks. During that time, the same behavior I complained about happened once again.
Is it uncivil for me to say, I am going to kill myself because my mother said something bad to me? What if my mother was a member of this site? Do you know that she isn't?
Does anyone see what I am saying here, or am I wasting my time once again?
poster:Happyflower
thread:723332
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20061228/msgs/723545.html