Posted by fayeroe on December 25, 2006, at 16:59:36
In reply to Re: Restate - *Trigger* » fayeroe, posted by Happyflower on December 25, 2006, at 16:17:25
> > we're talking, at least i am, about people repeatedly bringing up the subject and perhaps trying to manipulate other posters into paying them more attention or whatever.........pat
>
> I totally agree with this above statement because I have felt manipulated on more than one instance
> and I was
> unable to offer the support that I felt was "demanded" by me. I simply will not play into manipulation games here or anywhere else personally for that matter.
> I still feel manipulated because the person crying "wolf" knows I won't play the game anymore, and refuses to leave me alone, and is now what I feel is using the stiuation to gain even more attention from others, like poor me, happyflower won't talk to me, is ignoring me,
>
> and continues to what I feel is manipulating me through babblemail, threads, and chat. What do I do when I get such a demanding babble mail to either pay attention to me or I will kill myself? But yet when I say they are being manipulating or that I am being manipulated in a secret babble language that I don't understand, I risk getting blocked, when I try to do something about it. Maybe that is the whole idea to hurt others, like me, so they can suppposly feel better about themselves? I don't know, really,but I have had enough BS, and would like the behavior that I feel is harrassing to stop, NOW!i'm sorry that you're experiencing that. i, too, have gone through that on another mental health forum and i alternated between being furious and so frustrated that i couldn't hardly deal with the poster. that website eventually bans posters who harrass other members. it usually doesn't take too long once their process gets going. it isn't fair to come to a site for support and end up being the victim of an attention seeking poster.
i wish i knew how to help you........pat
poster:fayeroe
thread:716057
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20061202/msgs/716350.html