Posted by muffled on December 25, 2006, at 9:43:55
In reply to Re: disempowerment, posted by Dr. Bob on December 24, 2006, at 23:14:06
No, it's to provide a way for people to support and educate each other. But I realize it can be frustrating here.
Bob
Yes Bob, you have provided a place of support, I agree. Thats why blocks are SO bad. Cuz some people come to rely on this place as a place to get support. Some don't have alot of other support, or don't know how to ask for it yet(like me).
So blocks are doubly bad for that very reason.
When you are blocked it can be extreemly triggering for some, and yet at the same time the source of support has been removed, a double whammy. Thats where if the blocks were only a week, it gives a body a chance to chill, but its not so much the end of the world. Still hard, but bearable.
Then also there is less fear when you come back that you might screw up again and get a longer block. Makes me want to isolate, even when I come back. Partly fear, partly shame. Cuz at least is only going to be a week. Hard, but bearable....
Part of the frustration is due to lack of meaningful communication on your part Bob. And sometimes you just don't seem to 'get' stuff at all...and thats OK, I don't mean to diss you, it just a little frustrating cuz I don't think I get stuff across very well either.
Goto go. I see other stuff to reply but I go to go visiting.
Happy holidays.
Muffled
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